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This is Part 2, in Part 1 I shared my thoughts on aging and factors that affect our skin. Click here to read Part 1

Let’s be honest – there are no universal solutions to skincare. What works wonders for your bestie may cause harm to your skin. I’ve realized over the years, that every skin type is different and there is no one solution fits all approach – and tailoring your routine to suit your unique needs is essential. this is a lesson I wished I didn’t have to learn.

Trust me, the wrong product can leave a dent deeper than just money.  

In addition to having a combination skin – oily t-zone and dry u-zone, I do suffer from sensitivity and some allergies as well, so I’ve had my fair share of skincare missteps. 

One unforgettable lesson came in my early 30s when I experienced cystic acne for the first time – triggered by an expensive oil cleanser from a well-known brand. That one product wrecked my skin, my self-esteem, and my wallet. It took years of dedication with topical creams and serums to fade the scars because I couldn’t afford faster treatments like laser therapy. The lesson here is, just because it’s pricey doesn’t mean it’s right for you.  

Embracing Skin Imperfections  

Genetics, while a blessing, has its quirks. Along with my mom’s skin texture that is not prone to acne breakouts, I inherited large pores and prominent under-eye bags that love to announce themselves after a salty snack or a late night. Over time, I’ve learned to accept them.

On some days they’re subtle; while on others, they are more prominent. Unless I suddenly decide to splurge (or brave enough) on corrective surgery, there is a high chance that they’re here to stay and that’s perfectly okay.

But something that really took me off guard in my 40s was finding out that I was allergic to two of my favourite foods; rice and salmon. These allergies result in eczema, mainly on my lips, hence even actions such as eating or laughing become painful. This sensitive skin journey has taught me to be extra cautious about what I put on my face, which brought us to…

The Slow-and-Steady Approach  

If there is one rule I live by, it is this one; never try new products too fast, implement changes gradually. I always start by applying a tiny amount on the skin between my ears and jaw – a  sensitive area perfect for testing new product. If there’s no reaction after 30 minutes, I’ll take it to the next step: my face.  

Another “strategy” I use when trying new skincare products is keeping an eye on what my cousin has tried and what works for her. Even though we have different skin types, my theory is that our skin sensitivities might be similar since we’re genetically related.

Consistency is key. If you are considering using creams or lotions available over-the-counter, do not expect miracles overnight. Remember that these products are created for self-use and are usually designed to be milder, so patience is a must.

If there seems to be a miracle product that works instantly, remember that your skin might pay for it later. Strong skincare formulations are best left to the pros at aesthetic clinics.

When testing multiple new products, introduce them one at a time, like introducing new foods to a baby. Give each product at least one to two weeks (or more) before adding another to your routine, even if they came from the same brand. This way, you can easily pinpoint any product that triggers a reaction.  

Try To Get Expert Advice  

Most over-the-counter products don’t come with personalized consultations, which is why they’re more budget-friendly. That’s fine, but do your homework first. Read legitimate reviews, seek advice from brands with in-house consultants, or find those that offer skin analysis.  

Take Charge of Your Skincare Journey  

Your skincare journey is yours alone – own it. Tailor your routine, listen to your skin, and don’t be afraid to learn from mistakes. Whether you’re splurging on products or sticking to a budget, the key is understanding what works for you.  

Ready to start your journey? Begin with one product, test it carefully, and let your skin tell the story. And remember – there’s no such thing as perfect skin, only skin that’s loved and cared for.  

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