Tag: malaysia
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Thanks for the Silent Treatment—I Needed the Silence Anyway
I once got the silent treatment. Was it in 2018 or 2019? I honestly can’t remember anymore. And all because I chose to be firm. At that time, we were already struggling financially. Just enough to cover our commitments—barely a cent more. Then, during what was supposed to be routine maintenance, my house was damaged…
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Why People Pleasers End Up Drained
One of the most important lessons I’ve learnt is this: it’s perfectly okay to say no when someone asks for a favour. In fact, you need to say no every now and then. Because here’s how it usually plays out: The first time you say yes, they’re grateful. The second time, it becomes expected. The…
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Because Life Happens
As a financial planner — and also as a mom — I’ve seen how unexpected expenses can shake a family’s stability. Many people believe, “It’s okay, I can always rely on government hospitals if anything happens.” But here’s the truth: while treatment at government hospitals is subsidised, not all medications or procedures are fully covered.…
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Mind the Gap
When we talk about “protection,” most people immediately think of medical cards, insurance, or takaful. But here’s the thing — many Malaysians actually don’t have enough protection. This missing piece is what we call the protection gap. What is the Protection Gap? In simple words, the protection gap is the difference between what your family…
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When Silence Becomes the Strongest Answer
Have you ever encountered someone who is not a close family or friend, neither a client — who gets triggered if they can’t send you a private message, or if you don’t reply to them? I have. IT.WAS.NOT.PLEASANT. When I didn’t entertain her private message, she went the extra mile to get my attention in…
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Period Panties That Actually Feel Like a Hug
Periods aren’t exactly a walk in the park for me. The cramps, the bloating, the constant fear of leaks — sometimes it feels like my uterus is staging a full protest. That’s why what I wear during those days matters so much. I’ve been using period underwear for a while now, but recently I tried…
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Thank Yous
These past weeks I’ve learnt something new: excessive thank yous. Here’s what happened. I was showered with thank yous — excessively so. At first, I was baffled, because I wasn’t doing anything for free, you see. I was simply doing my part, and apparently, that was “approved” by her. But the moment I veered away…
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IJN – The Heartbeat of the Nation, and Beyond
When you think of world-class heart care in Malaysia, one name stands above the rest—Institut Jantung Negara (IJN). For over 30 years, IJN has been the place where life begins again, where tiny heartbeats are given a second chance, and where families from all walks of life come in search of hope—and find it. Today,…
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Emotions in Bottles with The Adidas “Feel the Vibes”
Adidas has taken fragrance beyond mere scent—introducing Feel the Vibes (Vibes), a bold collection designed to elevate moods, inspire action, and embrace emotional well-being. Launched by Coty, these Eau de Parfums (EDPs) blend cutting-edge olfactory artistry with neuroscience to create a sensory experience tailored for real life. Each fragrance is more than just a perfume,…
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Falling for Bouquet Garni at Three Years Old Café
A Whiff of Romance at Three Years Old Café. There are scents that pass us by… And then there are scents that stay—like a memory, a hug, a little reminder that beauty can be gentle. That’s how I felt the moment I met Bouquet Garni, a Korean body care brand dressed in the elegance of…
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